My Sunday Date

Me and my hon watched a movie yesterday at SM Lazaro. We watched the movie, Jumper, overall it is not that impressive and well, not a good movie to watch. The story is lousy and really has no sense. Its cool though if you have that kind of power where you can go to any place you want to go.

After the film, we ate dinner, usually we have problem picking a place to eat but the craving is strong for Super Bowl. So we ate at super bowl. We browse the menu, and the waiter is standing in front of us, well I was uneasy and I asked the waiter that we will call them once we are ready. Ordering food took us some times, I want to eat a lot while my hon wants to eat a simple meal. We keep on changing orders. At first I thought I was going to go nuts with the changes, but I calmly said, “Ok, what is our final menu” In the end, she ordered the lemon chicken meal with ice tea, while I ordered the Dimsum Platter with two siopao.

While eating she popped out the question that what have I been doing before that I am doing less right now once we are a couple. Well, my first answer is we seldom have our serious talks. We are always together going out, eating, and shopping. And when we are at her house, we can not talk privately. Before we always talk on the phone, but now, well we meet in person.

That is exactly what is on her mind. And I really admit it that I miss those times, but on that time we talked seriously and talked a lot of things. Well, I wish we could always have that time that we could spend some quality time together.

Through the talks we have we get to know each other. We get to know our disagreements, our convictions, strengths and weaknesses. Sometimes I think, do I need to give 100% effort, or an effort that is 100% consistent? Of course being dynamic relationship is healthy in a relationship compared to being a constant boring relationship. Hope I can mix the best of both worlds. Well hope in the months and years to come I would be the person that she would be proud to be with, because I will do my best to be the perfect “complement partner” for her. Everyone is not perfect but aiming to be one would be the ideal thing.